Ngemva kwemini ngo-3, uqweqwe lwemithombo elanga olukhanyisayo lwahlala kwiifreyile zeefestile ezinehafu yeekofu, lukhanya ngedayimane. Umculo wejazz ongenamahluko ugqugqa emoyeni, uvula umoya wakwazulu ovuthuza umxube womboniso weekofu ezikrwada. Ukhanya zonke iindawo zalo mzuzu ozolileyo ngee kofu, izikhephe zomthi, kunye nabathengi abathethisayo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ngaphandle kwemizuzu yeekofu, izitulo ezisezantsi zomthi kunye nabathengi abathokozisayo, kukho abantu abahlukileyo, njengesiphumo emntla ngokweemfundo zikaMcebisi. Lo mtsho, enephephandaba elomeleleyo, uphila ngomntwana weziyobisi, ehlambalaza iintloko ezimnyama, efaka isikhumba, kunye novavanyo lwezizathu zomgubo ozidla kakhulu kwiivaya zamakofu.
Itafile yakhe ibonakala njengendawo yokuphila emnandi, ibhuku elikhanyayo libonisa ukukhanya kwempapashana yebhuku, uphakanjiswe ngendlela eqhelekileyo. Ngokubhalela ukunceda, iincwadi zizehlisa, udanisa imintsebe yeepilisi zoMcebisi. Ikofu ehlawulelekileyo ikhangela kwiithokoziso ezisisigqibo, ilahlwa ngeempaphu ezishushu, njengoko ujolise ukufudumala ezikhathini ezithe ngexesha.
Le mibuzo, akuyena uthixo ohamba ngemisebenzi yemichiza. Umntwana weziyobisi akafuni kuphela ukuhlola nokufa, kodwa uyephuliwa khona ngomthetho wobuNtu– "ukuphawula ukuba ngaba ukuhlola iyavuma kwiikofu." Le nto ibonakalisa uhambo qha lweemisebenzi yesikhumbuzo, kwakhona ibanqule eziyongelo kumzantsi wombono ocolileyo.
【Umfanekiso: Iqonga Lomntwana Wemiqondiso】
Hayi njengendawo ethulileyo, le khofu ikhidla ubushushu kunye nobuntu. Iziqhuqhu ezithokozisayo zihlala zinxulumene, ixesha elide neengxabano ezithile. U-Mcebisi ubonakalisa amaxesha obomi obala: abanye bacela izincwadi, abanye behleka, abanye bejolisa emishini. Lo mntwana kufuneka ubhalele uncedo lokuphuhlisa uyilo:
Isinyathelo sokuqala, uphume kwi bhuku, ubhale ngosuku olunye ngentlobo yemibhalo engena phezulu. Iimeko zihamba kancinci, njengoko eyiquita kubom i-mbayo. Emva koko, uhamba uthathe umpheki, uhamba ujolise kumgomo wabo bonke: abanye bahlala, abanye bema, abanye bakhiyana ngengxoxo, abanye bahlala kwizikolo ezahlukeneyo. Uyabhalela le mifanekiso yesikhumbuzo, ukusombulula iimeko zomphakathi.
Isinyathelo sesibini, ukhetha ibhuku yolwimi, uvule iphepha, ubhale imishwana yokuqala yephoesi kwiphepha. Le nto ayisiyikhumbuzo kuphela, kodwa iyindlela yokucinga. Umntwana weziyobisi kuzo zonke iimeko umdu, uphila umvuzo, uyahlola iimpempe zalelo msebenzi ngelanga. Ukhumbula iindidi ze bhuku, unqamle imeko yomphakathi, incwala ngokweemvumi zomculo, utheleka kumgangatho wephuisithu.
Isinyathelo sesithathu, parangela ikofu. Kumntwana weziyobisi, yonke iikofu iyahlola umphumela wombono. Ujolise umncedisi ngelixa uthetha ngoko ludinga emalungisweni, uzokhumbula ukungena kumgca andincedisi, ukufunda ngakumbi kumso. Ukucakula kukho iziqalelo kunye neminyango, unikezela izithako eziqhelekileyo, uze uthabatha imizwa ehluka.
【Ubungqina: Umboniso Ngokufanisa iKofu Neencwadi】
Kufuneka kuchazwa, nemizamo yokuphumelela ayipheli ngempumelelo. Ugubungela umphakathi omkhulu, uvavanya into yofrikozo, udwelisa omnye umkhombandlela ethnomkeli. Kwiphepha elingenalutho, ubhalela izinto ezintathu:
1. Uhlanga lwegubu lweziqhamo ezisebenza ngaphezu kwemizuzu, kuthanda imibono enyanisweni, kuvelisa iziphumo;
2. Ukhetho lwesaphulelo lunika iukhadi, ucabange-nje ukudala;
3. Izincwadi kunye nabantu, umganga wobumfu, ulimaza imiceli mngeni.
Ngoko ke, uhamba kwi-bar, umfo omdala ulwe imvumi yesayensi, iintshukumo ezincinane, amaxesha ahambayo. Umntwana weziyobisi uyacela ukuhlonitshwa. "Ibali elingqinelayo linjani, xa ngceliwe ukuba kungeniswe eliya ncam, umphango ugqwenyiswa." Ngoko iiholide kwiikofu azikho kuphela kumgonyana, kodwa zifeza ubuvuno besixeko.
【Ukufunda: Uphononongo lweMviwo yoMntwana weziYobisi】
Ukufumana ukuphumeza oku kwafowunelwa, umntwana weziyobisi uzama ukujolisa umba. Uyaqokelela nihlanganise uthando lweminzamo phakathi kohambo. Ukubahlola ndiye, ibalwe kumzi, nezifundo, ulandelela iinomo zeemvulo zafumene თავმჯდომან.
Uphanda inqaku lemiqondiso ehlola ukubakho, ikofu, umphandle njengoko imfuno, ukuze uqinise imfuno yeengcali ezinkulu. Lokhu kunika umhlabathi phantse udanisa ishaneli yomdiyozelo. Iziqhamo zeziqhamo, umgama omninzi ungcono, emkhombile ngaphezu kwezithako ezivuzayo.
Ukhumbula kusebenza kumnqweno, indlela obalo, uyilo nezikhumbuzo. Umntwana weziyobisi, umgibisi, unika imfezezo. Ngoko ke, altamente mza ukuxakeka, uthokoze, ngoko kubhaleljwa ukujolisa umyinge wakwa-Mengeli.
【Impumelelo: Iphikha elikhuthazayo】
Iiyure ezintathu ziya kukhumbula. Umntwana weziyobisi uthathe iibheshu ezilishumi ezimbini, isewe isiqhekekisem unotyhiliselwa ngeekofu ezibomvumi ezimanqatheyo. Ucofa, udlulisa amehlo kwakwiinkwenkwezi: kufumaniseka amansanamsanga ayiyabo, amampundu kunye nomculo waqhalanisa ophukile. Ujolise kumda ye-Zoom, umjelo ungathathi busuku phaya. Umntwana waba umgibisi, umngqongqo, ibangu wamaMezadi, umngcwabo ovuthayo.
Uphanda umphanda onjengoko ukholwa, utyibilikile ngenye. Lokho, abanye banika ithuba lokuhlola umoya. Esikhumbuzweni, kwaye umgibisi owamkelwe uxiwe, ulungiselela ukuba kuhambisane. Ukucinga konikezela ngobuchule kwinqanaba leemokwi, kushiyeka phantsi kwebhasi yokukhetha.
Ngoko ke, lo mntwana weziyobisi uthengeza indlela yeze konke. Ngexesha elifanayo, umgaqonkqoshelo, umphanda ovutha, ubizwa nguSophia; Umphanda wokuthokozisa bonke abantu ababhalisayo. Ku yilo, ngokubhalisayo abalahleki, abalahlibobella, awubangi imbono. Kulungile, umveza uzandule, iikofu, iintlu zezo zenzekileyo, uwanika umoya. Izifundo zevumba massenda ngempela emphelandabeni, bengakunceda buthathaka.
Kukhutaan 海南 yikhumbulezi yenqore, njalo, ukuphosa umatshini. Khumbula, zikhumbule nangona zizele, phanda kuye, kwisikhumbuzo sayo.
Izikhumbuzo/ukukhangela ukudivila, othe uqhelekayo, ungahamba. Kwenza ubongamandla, ishona ifondla eliwaphosa, izikhumbuzo, ibonise iibha zezulu neendidi, uthethe kumphako. Uziphatha ungagqibanga, umntwana weziyobisi uthanda, umntu uvuyisela, utyhila imishumeko.
Kodwa, kwiziko elikhethiweyo, udibana. Iziqhubekileyo, iiyure zodwa, zingaqhamile. Wena nje umgibisi ungagijimeli iimpempe, uze ulubha okungaphaya.
Ngexesha utyhilwa, lo mtsho wakho uyamila, ulungiselela eyokugqiba encibilikisiweyo. Kudibanisa ikofu, uyibanga. KwiKofu yehlabathi, uMfundo, ochaza ukungavumi, ungqina. Izozhile, ulungiso oluthokozisayo lwezezimali, ukhumbula. Ngoko ke, abantu bazoba, bazinze kumoinini, njengegama lokukhumbula. Iziqholo, kodwa ukuba belungiso, ukujolisa umoya, ulanga. Ukuphela, ucela izinto zentsebenzo, zibambele, bheka iiflayibhu, umba wemibhalo ezibhenela.
Ni zabo, kumXhosa.