Ilanga elishushu lihamba ngalo isikhumba sokuqala, likhanyisa le ndawo yokufunda ebhalwe kahle, futhi kubonakala sengathi likhanyisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwabazali nezingane. Izigubhu ezilungile zitholakala odongeni, nezincwadi ezibalulekile, izincwadi zokufunda, nezincwadi zokuhlanganisa zibekwe kahle. Edeskini, umama olandelayo ubambe umntwana ukuze bavule "ifayili yokufunda," belungiselela impi enkulu yokufunda nokuhlela.
Lo mama uhlela amaphepha ngendlela enembile, efanisa nezinjongo zonyaka nezincwadi zokukhula, kwesinye isikhathi ekhuthaza umntwana ukuba abuze imibuzo, kwesinye isikhathi exoxa ngamaqhinga akhe ngesikhathi esithile. Izinyathelo zakhe zisebenza kahle, kuyilapho umntwana elalela ngokwakhe, azame ukwenza indlela yakhe ibe amakhono akhe, efisa ukuba umyalezo ophumelelayo kwi-sikhumba emfundo nesikhumba somphakathi.
Imfundo yanamuhla igcizelela ukufunda okuphazamisayo, izinsiza zedijithali kanye nezinhlobo ezihlelwe kahle, okwenza impilo yesikole ingashiyi ukuba ibe ngaphakathi kokufundiswa kuphela, imininingwane eminingi ihamba kuthenga umntwana. Ngokubheka lokhu, amandla okuhlela nezinhlobo zamafayili zokufunda sekuba yinto ebalulekile emzini. Kubazali abaningi, ifayili lokufunda akukhona nje ukuhlela imisebenzi, kodwa futhi kubonisa ukukhula komntwana, okuqoqwa kwezinto ezisemqoka. Nokuthi kuqhathaniswa ngobuchwepheshe, ukuqinisekile futhi koqobo, kuwumsebenzi omuhle kubazali.
Lo mama wabelane ngempumelelo yokwakha ifayili yokufunda ukuba sihlanganyele. Uveza ukuthi ekuqaleni, babhekana nezinkinga ezithi "kukholwa kakhulu futhi awazi ukuqala kuphi," kuhlanganisa amaholo, imisebenzi yokudweba, izivivinyo, nezinsuku zohlobo hlekani. Ngakho-ke, wanquma ukuqala ngendaba yokuhlanganisa, eqala ukuhlela konke ukufana nobuchwepheshe, uhlobo lwezinto kanye nesikhathi. Bese umphathisa umntwana ukukhetha "izinto ezinekhono" noma "ezisiza ekufundeni esikhathini esizayo," evuselela ukucabanga komntwana.
Ekuphileni, umama ugcizelela "ukubuyekezwa kwenyanga." Ngaphambi konyaka, uthe ubandakanya umntwana ekubuyekezweni kwemiphumela yokufunda, behlola ukuthi kukhona ukubuyiswa, izindawo ezidinga ukujolisa. Le nqubo iyithimba, ihlanganisa amakhono okuzithiba komntwana, futhi yenza abazali bakwazi ukwenza izinguquko ezisheshayo kumaphuzu okufunda. Njengoba umntwana ethula izixazululo ezihlabahlosile, ezifana nokukhipha izinhlanga ukukhombisa izifundo ezihlukene, ngokumara, ukuthi azikhumbula izinto ezizifundile futhi, umama uyakwenyusa futhi asize ukuhlela izingxenye ezithile.
"Ukuhlela ifayili yokufunda nentombazane, akukhona nje ukuhlela amafayili, kodwa ukufaka imikhuba yokufunda." umama ukhuthaza. Ukwazi kwengane ukuphefumla ukucabanga, ukuthi kuzobavumela bakwazi ukufunda kahle, futhi basebenzise kwi-ecological management.
Ngaphezu kwama folda ebhodwe, usebenzisa nokuthola okungcono kwezinsizakusebenza. Ngokwesibonelo, ungathola ama-ezinhlobonhlobo ezisekeli, nokwenncqanga, eyazi ngosuku lwesikole. Noma ama floppy disks nelayisha kancane, ukubhaqezi izikhanyisi, izifundo zoshukela, nezikhumbulo ezihlukahlukene, ikuthola kahle.
Imikhuba ethokozisayo yokuhlola nokuhlanganisa efaka ukukhalipha okuthile, ibalulekile intombazane enwetshiwe yangaphambili, ibhalwe kumamabhayela, sihlomleanwe kweminye imisebenzi. Umama ufisa ukuba abhaliswe phansi lezi zindawo, akasisebenzi kancane njengomthetho, uma efuna amakhono aqhamukayo.
Amehlo akhulu ekufundeni kufanele axhumeke ngeziqu zefayili yokufunda, ngaleso sikhathi bonke abesilisa bazokwazi ukufunda kalula, kodwa bakhuthaze okwenziwa. Vele, impumelelo yePhathi yesikole nezinzima zokuqala izodabuka certar izinyathelo ezilungile lezi okungezinhle.
Ekameni lenhliziyo, umama ubabazisa. "Nxa sincengisa okuthize, kubalulekile ukufunda naku-yasana." Futhi kuze kube yindi, imiphumela emigene, lezi zikhumbulo zmaphakathi zifuna ukuba bandarhiyeli futhi zifundise isikhathi.
Ngabe lokho kusebenzelana izinto ezikoleni akukuthi zizowela kuphela uma uhamba ngaphakathi njengoba izinto ezisingatha okuthile empilweni yomntwana.
Noma ubani osta, uyothola umehluko. Lokho kuzonyusa, kwazokhombisa ukuthi ukuhlukanisa izinqumo ezilungile kungamukela inhlanyelo yesikhathi esizayo, abantu bazobekezela, nokubona isikole kube isikhumbuzo sokuqala.
Ngezinzwa ezivulekile, izikhumbuzo kufanele zithokozise abazali, futhi umama ubonakala esebenzisa umoya osanda kuthokozisa, lokho kuzomphelezela umphakathi, nakuma-sikhumbuzo akhifisi isimo sokufunda, kufuthese umamkelwa izikhumbuzo kakhululiwe.