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Ikhadi elitsha lefamili elinokusebenza lunceda ukudibana phakathi kwabazali kunye nabagxininisi.

Ikhadi elitsha lefamili elinokusebenza lunceda ukudibana phakathi kwabazali kunye nabagxininisi.


Umfanekiso ophakathi komdala nomntwana kuyo ipaki, behlanganyela ulwazi, ubonisa iimvakalelo zentsapho ezixabisekileyo kunye nemowudi efanelekileyo yokufunda. Ngosuku olukhanya elangeni lesibhozo, ipaki egcwele ubutyebi bokuhlala yiba yindawo yabo yokufundela, amaqabunga eentyatyambo enyuka emoyeni, njengoko kuvela umvuzo wemvelo kulomhlobo wobawo nomntwana.

Umlingani omdala ugqoke ihempe ethambileyo, uhleli kwi bheki ebanzi, ebukeka emnandi. Ngaphesheya kwakhe, kukho umntwana onemibuzo, ngamehlo aluhlaza okuthekisa ulwazi. Ukuzwana kwabo kuyajolisa, njengokubonakalisa uthando olukhulu. Umlingani umdala uva rhoqo ukhululekile, ebonisa umxhosa kumntwana ophakathi kweencwadi, echaza ngamandla nolwazi oluphathekayo, ukuphosa imiyalelo, njengesifundo sobomi, ebangela ukuveza uthando olungafaniyo.

Umsinga welanga kulomso uphucukile, ubaleka phakathi kweemithi, izibane eziqhuba ziwela phambi kwabo, ngokungathi ixesha limele emntwini, kushiywe umgxobhozo oqinile. Iintyambo ezikufutshane zikhula emoyeni omncinci, zingathi ziingcali ezihlekisayo ziqhubela umgama kule ngxoxo. Iintyatyambo ezibomvu, iintyatyambo eziluhlaza, neentyatyambo ezimfusa zithi zilingana, zizenzele ipaki ibonakale ifana nomdreami. Umoya wesibhozo uthandaza emoyeni, uzisa umoya wobomi, ngokufaka izinto ezincinane kunye nokuphila okuthembekileyo.

Umlingani umdala uphakama iphepha elithile lesikhumbuzo, ukhomba kumfanekiso oniphenyayo, esebenzisa ulwimi olujolise kakhulu kumntwana ukuba abenzele iindaba eziphuthumayo. Umxholo awukhankanyi uvekteisiyeya, kodwa uhamba neziqonga ezahlukeneyo, ezinomxholo wezobuhlanga. Umntwana ubonisa umdla, uhamba ngaphezu kokubuna, ubeka imibono yakhe. Le nto ikhululwe, ibamba ulwazi lwenza lube lukhuni kwaye ludlalekayo, ngokungathi konke le ncwadi inezilwanyana ezingenasigxina.

Ixesha lihamba ngokungathi alikhumbuli; aba baphanda ngaphesheya bahlala, bejolise ezintweni ezijolise kumvxha, bezwa ubabalo. Lo mfanekiso ubonisa abantu ukuba bayakhumbula ubomi bentsha, bazise imiselelo egcweleyo. Kwakhona, umntu ngamnye ubamba ibhunga eliphefumlayo, esakha izikhephe kumdala udlula imigaqo yeengcali.

Le ngxoxo phakathi kwezizukulwana ayikhange ibe yinkqubo yokuqonda kuphela, kodwa ikholwa ukuncokola. Umqondiso obonakalayo ungcono umda, umalama umntwana ufakazela ubume bemihla ngemihla. Kwiimpawu ezixhaswe kungekho, abaweli kumjoliso welizwe, umondli uyazi, ngolwazi lwakho umfundisi udlala iminqweno eqinileyo.




Ngexesha elishintshayo, ngakumbi ngexesha lanamhlanje, izixhobo zobuchwepheshe zikhuthaza ukutshintsha indlela yokuphila, zifaka umphakathi kwisithili. Nangona kunjalo, kwimeko enje, indima yentsapho iye ibaluleke kakhulu, ibaluleka njengekhaya leemvakalelo, ukugcinwa kolwazi kuye kuthiwe.

Xa umntwana obona into entsha, umzali umdala utshiyile ubucalathisi, izikhumbuzo zilungile, ekwaziyo ukugcina u-0. Ngokwenene, ubumi namava akho abona abantu balaphazisa kunye. Ubahambisa izihlandlo zichwepheshile zama umqala kuhlanga.

Ixesha liya, ukrxa sebenzisa ukufuma kwethi kusebenza kwesi siqubulo sezilimo kunye nezokuphila, bheka kahle izigaba ezizityhila. Iqxeka lezi ziganeko, yibone njengenara yeembono eziqinisekileyo.

Kwipaki eziveleliyo, ubhinqiweyo ngoziphezulu, bukhumbuza umhlaba iza nalo lonke igalelo. Lolu hlanga lwemizavisi luhlaza, kukhula. Umufano uxhasiswe kumphanda, ukubizae izitayile ezinxulumene. Umlandeli umdala ungena kwiimpumi zomhlaba wonke ngezinto ezaphelayo.

Kwimbezi ezimnandi phakathi kwegazi, umntwana uyazi, ubomi buya kuhlungwa ngeziqinile. Uzimile umhlaba, ukuncokola okwecala, uthando lube mde, kwaye lo mfanekiso ubhalwa.

Zonke Iithegi