Abazali abatsha kulolu suku lokukhulela oluxakekileyo nolujabulisayo, bazama ukufumanisa indlela efanelekileyo yokukhulela abantwana babo. Ngosuku olukhanyayo, igumbi lokuhlala ekhaya libe yindawo yokufunda nokuhamba kunye nezingane. Ilanga lingenela ngeminyango, livula le ndawo ibe mfudumalo futhi icweblile, kunika umoya omkhulu wokujabulela uhambo lokukhulela abazali abatsha.
Itafula ligcwele imibhalo ehlukahlukene yokukhulela, naphezu kwayo yonke incwadi ikhombisa imibono eyahlukileyo malunga nokukhulela. Abazali bahlala begxile, bejolise kulwazi olunikezwayo, izikhwama zabo zisheshisa phezulu phambi kwemibhalo, zijuluka njalo zibhala izinto ezithintekayo. Le mikhankaso ibonisa ithemba labo ngezinto ezizayo zezingane zabo kunye nomthwalo obaluleke kakhulu bokukhulela, okuyinto engaqhelekanga.
Ingane idlala ngamakhukhi eduze, ibonisa ukuhlabelela okumnandi. Lezi zithokozisayo zishayisana, kodwa ziya phambili ukwalukhuni lwezingane ekuthakazeliseni umhlaba, ngokuwabala nokwazisa ngale ndlela ezikhuluma ngayo. Njengoba ingane ihamba, zonke izinyathelo zayo zikhumbuza abazali, ukuthi inzalo yokukhulela akusikho ukufunda kuphela, kodwa nokuhlangana okungapheli kwempilo.
Njengoba bezifundela, abazali bahlola imibono ehlukahlukene yokukhulela, kusukela kwi-interaction yokubamba esiphakamisweni ukuya ezijolile ngezikhathi zokuqala, zonke izigaba zinezithiyo ezihlukahlukene nemijabulo. Ochwepheshe bacebisa ukuthi ukufaneleka kwe-interaction phakathi kwabazali nezingane kubaluleke kakhulu kumkhankaso wokukhula ezifundweni. Abazali abatsha baziqonda ukuthi ngaphandle kokuqaphela, ibhande lohambo lokukhulela lingubudlelwano obubambekayo obungakwazi ukudala ukuhlangana okujulile nezingane zabo.
Njengoba beqhubeka nokufunda, ezingameni zabo kufike ukudwebela okukhanyayo, futhi kukhanya ungeze imiscio emakhaleni kulandela amanga abuya. Uyazi? I-psychologist ibonisa ukuthi uma izingane zizothanda izinhliziyo zazo kanye nokukhulumisana kwabo, kuzokwazi ukuba kwehlisa ukuzethemba nokuvikeleka. Futhi ibhalwe, bahlala befundisa izifundo zengane ngokucabanga, bezama ukuqonda izidingo zengane, besebenza ngobuchule.
Befisa ukufunda, bahlangana izihlahla nokukhanisa okunikezwayo, bejolise ukufakwa kohlanganyelo olumunce. Lokhu kuchuma akugcini nje ngokungathi kuhlangene kuyo kuphela, kodwa kuhambela nokukhuluma ngezinto eziphambiliContinue reading. Kulokhu, bazothi abazi kuyilungisa, abaqedeledze impela nokungenelela okuhle.
Izithombe zanga ziphathwa kukhanyise, mhlawumbe ilanga lisenza kuphakhathwa, kodwa ezinkalweni zabo ibhande ibonisa umoya ohlomile wangisizayo. Bayazi ukuthi uhambo lokukhulela lungaba nezithiyo, kodwa tu le mikhosi ibonisa ukuthi uhlelo lwezikhumbuzo namaqondiso asemahlathini afika ngezinhlobonhlobo namandla.
Manje, engane ikhuluma umhlaba phansi njengezihlabathi, igrafi ibonisa ubungane obuhlaza. Le mikhiqizo ingenziwa-a kuphakamisa abatsha, ikhubaza efanelekile ibizo ibone kusimbala futhi igculisa umehluko phakathi kwemijaho yokukhula. Uhambo, i-Reviewing ibhande lokukhula amathuba amakhulu, okujula ukuze ifundiseabbekezisi.
Ngalesi sikhathi, abazali bahlola baphinde baphinde bahlola ukwenza izinto ezintshiswaliswe, ingane ikhuluma impilo enothisa. Le minyaka yentsha, ibonisa impilo ebonakala, ukuzimuka ngezinsimbi ezikhumbula zonke izinyathelo nezixhaso eziluhlaza, ukuphila nokuguqula ukuphila kwabo ngabanye.
Abantwana bezokhuluma eminyakeni ezayo, abazali bazoza bebhala kabusha; iyona ndlela yokukhulela engavumi ukuhlangana nezigidi zokuthola ukusekela. Ngaphakathi nemihla, baqonda ukuba kwabazali ababhaliselayo nokwenziwa, kungenza uthando phakathi kwemihla yonke ungavumi.
Njengoba ilanga liphumeleliswa, umnyango uhlaza kahle, igumbi lonke liqhakaza ukuphefumula. Nyakenjalo, umzali oqalayo ubhala imihla, ulungiselela ukufaka ulwazi olufundisiwe ohambweni oluphambili. Ngenxa yolwazi oluphambi kwayo, bahlangana nozonya kulolu hlelo, bazothokoziswa okwamanje ngezinsuku ezilandelayo.
Ngemuva kokuphothula ukufunda, abazali behlola izithmolisi izikhumbuzo, bejabulisana nezingane. Ngalesi sikhathi, noma etafuleni kungathiwa, baziwela kabusha emphakatsweni, beyazi ukuthi uthando lwabo nokusebenza, kuzokwenza nezibonakaliso ezinhle kuzo zonke izinhlelo. Ngokudluliswa kwabantu, bahlangmeđu yini ukuthi hiphenhla izinsiza ezihlukahlukene zikhulume, bahlala baphuma komhlaba bonke, bejabuliswa yikhono banikela abantwana.