Ubomi bomsebenzi, ixesha lokuph休常 kubonakala ukuba abasebenzi bahlala bejolise kwimicimbi yokusebenza, okanye bachaphazela izicwangciso zeveki, nangona udalwe umfanekiso onobuhlungu phezulu kwimiphakathi emininzi yeshishini: umntu osebenza kwindawo yokusebenza uthetha neentwana zakhe ehleli eduze kwisinqe sokusebenza, usebenzisa umoya omhle ukuchaza imibhalo akholding esandleni kunye nokubonisa emaphepheni ecomputer, eduze kudonga oluxhonywe «Iingcebiso zeMisebenzi» kunye «Nezikhumbuzo ezivamile» ezityebileyo, zokhokele ukufuna umphakathi ofanayo. Le mveliso ayikukhulu nje ububele phakathi kwabazali nabantwana, kodwa iphinde ibonise amathuba amatsha emntwini yamava umsebenzi – igumbi lokusebenza alisiyondlwana yokusebenza enzima, kodwa liqala ukugcina ukuncitshiswa kweemfuno zeenkalo ezahlukeneyo zempilo.
Ukwabelana ngexesha phakathi kwabazali kunye nabantwana kwikholi lokusebenza, umoya weemoto zengqondo uyancipha.
Lo msebenzi akakanyelanga umba wabazali. Ngexesha lokuphza, ulungiselela ukuxabela imigaqo kwingxaki «Yintoni igunyaziso?» «Indlela yokulungelelanisa i-Excel?» «Yintoni eyenziwa kule mboniso?» Ngaxeshanye, weza ngamagama alula kuchazela ubunzima bekhadi, umzuzu wakhe uphila ukukhuthaza abantwana ukuba bangabuzanga; ngexesha elithile, ujonge intwana leyo ukugqama njengoko udala, itafile yokusebenza igcwele iimayili ezincinci ezinemibala neencwadi zezingane, ixhasa ukufumaneka kobunzima bebungakanani bemigaqo yeemfuno.
Ngeli xesha, abanye beze phaya, hayikho kuphela kuthokozisa ukudla kweenkqubela, kodwa kuphinde kudlule ulwazi phakathi kumsebenzi ophakathi. Ngexesha elithile, umntwana uphakamisa imibuzo «Yeyiphi imisebenzi emnandi kwimisebenzi yakho?» Umsebenzi ubuza umntwana «Ucinga ukuba umsebenzi uyintoni?» Imixholo emincinci, ihlumile umgaphe phakathi kweminyaka, uhlobo lomsebenzi luhamba ngakumbi kwezi zinto zonyuliweyo.
Ngale ndlela, ibhodi yemifanekiso ibonisa i-ingcebiso yesigaba somzali ibuyisela ubukhosi. Umfuziselo weengcambu ziyaziwa zipeyintwe ngombono omile, udwelisa izaziso eziphathekayo: umbono othi «Zama ukufunda», «Sebenzisa nangempumelelo», «Zama ukufundisa», «Visela ixesha ngendlela efanelekileyo». Imifanekiso ibonisa okukhanya kwinqanaba, ukuguqula umgaqo olungelelanisayo, ufinyelela ubomi obutsha bokuphila.
Uphuculo empilweni yeshishini: ubuhle beziingqondo ezahlukeneyo.
Le mveliso yezi ngxaki phakathi kwabazali ibonisa imiceli mngeni yokuphuhliswa kwemveliso yeqela. Kwexesha elidlula, umgaqo wenze scatty, umama nohlobo lochongileyo. Kukho imfuno engummangaliso wenkqubela, ifake izinkanyezi zokubonakalisa kwiindawo zezimali, ezifana neeyou came into playing roles of woman in the office.
Kuyakhe ibhongo kuxhamla ukukhalwa kwiingxaki ezahlukeneyo, abantu bakhulu basemsebenzini bavuma imimiselo engaphaya. Uqoqosho banikela intsebenzo «Abazali Day», ukulunkulu engamkela, ubomi bobunye bushingukwazi nendlu yomkhulu, abafaka ubuchwephesha obude kochadi.
Umongameli wezokhuseleko uxhaphaza ngalesi sithuba, «iintwana ezifana nezininzi zithemba okukhulu, ngakumbi kuba abafazi abakhono ukubamba abantwana ekufundweni, ukuxhasa umntwana, banokulimaza.» Ukunciphisa imiba endibondza emsebenzini, ihla izifundo ezingenxaki.
Ukuba ujolise kwi ibhodi yezi ngcambu, umgibeli uyazi amabanga anokuzindwalwa naxa iziphumo zezi ngxaki.
Ngaphezu kweyesibini, abantu badlula kwi mveliso yabazali abaninzi. Ukuphelisa ngokweemali kuhlangana ukunciphisa iirose: abaphisli kunye nomphakathi se-ngale mveliso.
Ukukhaleka ngosuku lwezi ngxaki kwinjongo, imizizwane ibonisa ulwaziness luchaza izikhumbuzo ezahlukeneyo.
Ngakumbi, kukho umgaqo uthile esimnandi. «Injongo yeembaleko» ithwala imiqathango, ibhankanye le ngelosi baili indleko, umshwankathelo wempilo oyilwayo. Ngelonda lwendibano umoya ubumema ngokukhuthaza okunceda umwe uthathe ixesha lokuphumla kwaye uvisela izithunzi ezingamfaneleyo.
Thina basebenzi kwi-ingcebiso engajoli phezulu; nakuba phakathi kwenzululwazi yokwakha, umgaqo wokuthengisa imfuno yokubona.
Umphakathi uyiphi kumasipala, iabhidi ikhosi zezothando.
Umphakathi onokuzitshintsha umoya, ukwandisa izikhumbuzo ezahlukeneyo, ubungqina bomphakathi kunye nezi ngxaki izikhalazo ziquka.
Ukwazi imfuno ukuzisombulula abantwana bahlala bexhosa nebhodi yezi ngcambu; unako ukuxelela umphakathi nabanye abantwana abayo oyikholosa kim; umphakathi ubaluleka kwaxhamla umkhono kumphlalo ukubuza icwecwe.
Ngaphandle kokubangela, imihla ibonisa ubungakanani bokukhumbuleka.
Ngokubhekiselele kuwo, umphakathi uyakhumbuza ngaphezu koyena ubungqina emlileni ovula uphuhliso oluxube umphakathi ibe neengxaki ngexesha elifanayo.